Is he for real? Can I always be the to blame?

His body seems restless for many reasons and he is taking it out on you with silly excuses because he cannot admit what is really going on. For him to wake up in the middle of the night i could ume he is stressed at work? or some form of stress from somewhere. Him eating in the middle of the night could mean he's trying to distract himself from whats bothering his mind because people usually eat the wrong food for comfort. Having sugar in his body and his gluclose level soaring will make it much more harder for him to sleep throughout the night. Its not fair that he is taking this out on you constantly, you really need to be confident in yourself to talk openly with him about it. If he loves you he should be able to understand how you feel attacked and you're hurting for being blamed on with these sorts of things. You should be able to freely browse the internet at night or watch tv if it doesnt interfer with his needs. You have made effort by being in the kitchen to not interfere with his sleeping needs so blaming you and not identifying your effort is definitely unfair. The sooner you address this problem with him the sooner both of you can find a resolution that makes you both satisfied.